Leeches And All That Suck!

Many of the manhood therapy oils sold today are variations of medicinal leeches called Hirudo Medicinalis. Historically and scientifically, leech therapy has been used as an anti-coagulant to prevent blood from clotting, and to effectively promote bloodflow to the vascular systems.

It has been found that these blood-sucking worms are anti-inflammatory, anaesthetic, anti-phlogistic and anti-infectious. Ironically, when one gets bitten by any thing, one would immediately attend to the open wound and apply direct pressure to promote blood clotting. But in the case of these medicinal leeches, blood flow can continue for hours. And rightfully so, especially because oxygenated blood enters the wound site until veins re-grow and regain proper circulation. That is why some doctors have used leeches during surgeries. Success stories abound, and some include the reattachments of various body parts (including fingers, toes, ear and even scalp), breast reconstruction, and vein regrowth. In summary, this organism is responsible for bloodletting, that is to remove 'bad' blood.

There are some interesting medical sites detailing the benefits of the Hirudo Medicinalis that are of worthy mention:

http://www.pbs.org/wnet/nature/bloodysuckers/leech.html

http://bioweb.uwlax.edu/zoolab/Table_of_Contents/Lab-6a/Class_Hirudinea_2/class_hirudinea_2.htm

http://www.genoscope.cns.fr/externe/English/Projets/Projet_PE/organisme_PE.html


In the traditional Malay communities, the manipulative use of leeches (called 'tapa' in Malay) is as common as using a Band Aid in the western world. The only difference is that the latter promotes blood clotting, while the former prevents it.

For myself, this has indeed been a fascinating journey as I ventured to know what I was doing as a spa therapist. The information is extensive on the internet, but as a therapist specialising in massage and manhood treatment, my job then was to be knowledgeable not just by facts, but by practical experience in helping men cope with some of their very pressing issues. Even for a healthy male, general maintenance of the male sexual organ is very basic and necessary. In the previous blog entry, one client who is very healthy recounted the tremendous gain in his sexual energy after only ONE 45-minute manhood treatment.

In the next blog, allow me to make a comparison of the leech oils available, and let me show you HOW to use the oils for effective personal gains.

Manhood Therapy & Male Potency Treatment

I am often asked what the manhood therapy is about. This also accounts for the setup of a blog dedicated to the topic I specialise in.

From my previous post, I did mention that in the Malay tradition, one's sexual health is tantamount to one's overall wellbeing, especially more so when Malay families culturally take pride in having a large family. The massage to the male genitalia has always been an ancient heritage, just like the female post-natal slimming wraps which are now common menu items in any spa industry.

Yet the male organ that gives us and our partners pleasure has been conveniently relegated to a taboo topic - a man can broadcast about his sexual conquests, but no man will ever talk to another man about his penis. A proud owner of a Mercedes-Benz will give no hoots in proclaiming his prowess on the road. A soldier would not wait a second to boast of his warfare technology and weapon in arm to win his battle. A woman would not be embarrassed to share about making an appointment to the gynecologist or for a facial. But a mighty man will suddenly retreat into a quiet corner when it comes to erectile dysfunctions or premature ejaculations, or the humiliation of having a tool too small. For a man, his ego is very much tied to his phallus - the very symbol of strength and virility. Of power and control.

The traditional Malay manhood therapy ("tenaga urut batin") is suitable for men who are having problems in a fulfilling sexual relationship, for those wanting to increase sexual pleasure, for those who want to increase the size of the male organ, and especially for ALL men who need a general maintenance of one's sexual organs on a regular basis. We often take good care of our cars, the engine and body parts by sending it for servicing and maintenance for a smoother performance. Similarly, if the male genitalia does not get enough fresh blood circulation, one is only running on low power. To peak at sexual performance, I'd recommend going for a genuine manhood therapy ("tenaga urut batin") at least once a month.

Warning:
There are masseurs who offer 'manhood therapy', but theirs is
merely a gimmick. Many of their services turn out to be a sleazy and
unprofessional handjob. These are the very same people who have tarnished the very name of manhood therapy, and is now, sadly, associated with 'extra services'.

With the "tenaga urut batin" and the special massage oils for the genitalia, we are able to recover elasticity of the urinary and seminal tract, and simultaneously recover 6,666 veins around the penis. If done regularly enough (on a daily basis), one can see visible differences in the length, girth, firmness, and smoothness of one's seminal ejaculation.

With permission, I have added this question a client asks me AFTER having gone through a session of the manhood therapy via email. He had gone back to his country and realised his sexual engagement with his girlfriend was better:

I have to tell you that the manhood massage had an effect
on my sexual life...

He recounted:

I remember during the ejaculation that I was shivering and
shaking and the energy that was moveing me was coming from my
pelvis and penis. It was a great feeling. I want to feel like this everytime
I have sex... I know that the massage intensified the level of the orgasim, which I want to increase it more and more, but does that mean I have to get a manhood massage everytime I want to have sex???

The answer I provided was lengthy, but to cut to the chase, simple exercises can be adopted for self-massage to improve one's sexual health.

(By the way, should any woman like to find out about the female equivalent of sexual cleansing and rejuvenation, drop me a comment and I'll respond if there is enough interest - Remember, optimal sexual health for both genders among the Malays and Indonesians is a necessity and a foregone cultural assumption that we, each, have to maintain our own reproductive organs).

In another blog posting, I shall evaluate the medicinal herbs and ointments that are traditionally used by Malay communities to boost up the male sexual energy. I have tasted them. I have tried them. So I know.

A Bit of Malay Culture. A Bit of What I Do.

It was oversight on my part to assume that everyone indulges in a spa experience now and then, so when a visitor, Catch, posts on my previous blog: "What exactly does a spa therapist do?", I realise it's a necessary step for me to talk about my work. In some detail, at least.

Well, one might have seen pictures of exotic getaways with a masseur giving a sensual back rub in the middle of a tropical rainforest, or a balcony overlooking swaying palm trees with the accompaniment of ocean waves. One might have witnessed photographs in travel brochures or clips on TV programmes of papaya milk being poured on one's skin, or a tired body soaking in a hot tub with rose petals.

I, for one, have been pampered under such luxurious resort settings in Indonesia and Malaysia. These are, undoubtedly, Asian delights.

Different massages vary with different cultures - traditional Chinese massage ("Tie Da", "Tui Na") is typically used to treat sprains, fractures and muscle aches (almost akin to the modern chiropractor) and the common practice of poking needles into the meridians to promote efficient blood flow ; ancient Thai massage ("Nuad Phaen Boran") is characterised by yogic stretches to align the energies of the body; Zen Shiatsu uses finger pressure to unify the spiritual and physiological aspects of the body (akin to the Chinese acupressure).

Similarly, the traditional Malay or Javanese massage ("Urut" or "Pijat") uses firm hand pressure to promote an overall wellbeing to a tired and sickened body, with the prescription of herbs and roots ("jamu") as medicines.

What I've learnt as a massuer of the Malay massage is not only the technique, but also the very tradition and culture that separates this massage from other massages. When I was in Langkawi last year, I was told again by an elderly masseur that the "pijat" is a dying tradition as it has not been passed down to the younger generations. Perhaps the Westernised world has taken over in terms of commercial interests with Swedish massages, and other modern bodywork treatments.

In practice, "urut" or "pijat" is gender-based. Only a male masseur can touch and massage another man to protect the dignity of the persons involved and integrity to the tradition.

Only a female masseur can touch and massage another woman. The latter is a more popular option because of its famous post-natal massage to aid in slimming. This also accounts for the beautiful, slender figures of many married women in their tight, translucent clothing ("kebaya").

Think of the flight stewardesses aka Singapore Girls and you will understand why this piece of clothing is innocently sexy and deliciously flattering. No wonder Singapore Airlines is a 'great way to fly'.

Okay. Enough promotions - I ain't getting any commissions. Haha.

There are so many more things I can mention about the Malay culture, but I guess I will bring it up in other blog entries. Back to the question - What exactly do I do as a spa therapist?

I will talk about my typical outcall service because an outcall is different; I go to the client's place and set up my spa there. Yes, right at the comfort of his home.

Depending on the package required, I might do a lulur paste to exfoliate dead skin cells over the entire body. It is not as rough as sand, but it does feel a tad grainy once in a while during the exfoliation process. This is then followed by a shower or bath ("mandi").

After feeling refreshed from the hot shower, the "urut" or "pijat" begins.

I would say that I help to alleviate physical tensions and pains.
I smoothen out the stresses of a weary body.
I promote a more efficient circulation and bloodflow to all the bodily organs.

I think I should talk about the traditional manhood therapy or male potency treatment ("urut batin") in another blog. This is one of the biggest differences to all the different massages in the market because sexual health and maintenance is a very necessary part of the Malay culture. If you don't believe me, take a look at the number of offspring in a typical Malay household. It is perhaps only with the rising living costs in Singapore that more families are less productive in the department of reproduction - which is such a shame.

By the way, I am proud to say that I provide excellent services true to the slogan of the company I had worked at - "Your Pleasure. Our Promise" because the spa is indeed a sanctuary of life, offering a sensual yet spiritual connection to mind, body and soul. I believed in it, and I still do - simply because I helped my then boss to carve a slogan and the company philosophies.

Starting A Blog

I have been a spa therapist and trainer with a renowned spa specialising in traditional Malay massages in Singapore for the past four years. With the change in management and the supposed revamp of the company philosophy, I found myself in conflict with many of the new practices that were in obvious disagreement with true Malay heritage.

Deciding to move on, I now work as a freelance trainer and massage therapist. But because Malay massages are often not as well marketed as other forms of spa treatments, I find myself shouldering the responsibility to educate and inform, to inspire and empower, to re-energise and heal.

The birth of a blog is therefore necessary in this Information Age.

But what am I supposed to write? I can't be writing about my clients, can I? I don't think my clients would like me to describe them in detail, their medical conditions (if any)... Besides, client information is confidential. So what must I include in the blog????

I am completely in a fix. I still am, even as I pen this down.
I don't even know if anyone will ever read my blog.

In any case, this is it! My first instalment. Just simple thoughts highlighting my fears, anxieties, and even skepticism. Thinking back over the years I've worked with that spa (name is withheld for obvious reason), there are indeed many nice memories that I could recount.

So before I move on in actual time, I shall take the next few instalments to reminisce - if you allow me to. For now, should anyone - and yes, I mean anyone - be even remotely interested in the life of a spa therapist recounting his experiences, or have questions about anything, please let me know. Feedback. Email. Blog. Anything. Let the conversations begin. Soon.